Hi. My name is Jeanette Ponder. I’ve been a:

• singer
• dancer
• costume designer
• wardrobe diva
• fashion show dresser
• assistant manager of a gym
• go-go diva
• exotic dancer
• dominatrix
• bookstore worker
• music librarian

…and gods know what else.

I went to Sarah Lawrence College, got bored, and have embarked on a living a fabulous, luscious life. It’s been one full of oddness, surprises, pain, depression, wealth, poverty, and drama. Oh, yeah, and a bit of romance thrown in.

I’m not married. I’m not even dating. But, yes, I can and will comment on just those things, along with a lot of other stuff. Why? Because, frankly, some of the best editorial comes from those who are on the outside, looking in.

While you’re giving me the privilege of your attention and time, I’m sharing a piece of myself. Hopefully you get some value from what I’m saying. That’s why I’m here- to give you something worthwhile that makes you feel better, feel something, or think.

This blog has been honored in several blog carnivals already, and I’ve been interviewed by AP reporter Daniela Flores re: my posting “Loathsome Dating Site Redux“.

Other than that, this blog’ll be changing, growing, and sprouting tentacles at a moment’s notice. I’m adding new things all the time. This, and my romantic erotica writing, are my full-time gigs. Oh, along with the Ebay store. And the two other blogs that are going up. Ahem.

To that end, I also accept donations.

Anything you choose to give is wonderful, and really, really appreciated. I promise you that I won’t go and drink myself silly with the money, either. Well, maybe not this weekend

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I hope you find a lot of great things that mean something to you on this site. If you think of anything else you might need, email me at isiskalislushlife at gmail dot com.

Lots of love, Jeanette Ponder